The best way to have a threesome. A menage a trois is probably the biggest male sexual fantasy, but unfortunately this is a privilege that few girlfriends agree to. The good news is if you set up your relationship correctly it's much easier to have an menage a trois with your girlfriend than you think.
There are three factors you need to pay attention to, in order to get your girlfriend to agree to a menage a trois.
First, the vibe of your relationship...
If you have a conservative vibe relationship, you really don't stand a chance at having a menage a trois with your girlfriend. You must have a highly sexual tone in your relationship.
This means that you have to START the relationship with a sexually adventurous vibe to keep the hopes of a menage a trois alive. Be "kinky", and try a few freaky things. Make sure you never make your woman feel judged when you try things in bed... otherwise the menage a trois dream with die.
Went you start the relationship on the tone of sexual exploration, you can start small -- perhaps you surprise her with a seks toy in bed -- and you can build it up all the way to a menage a trois. If you slowly escalate your sexually adventurous relationship, a menage a trois will seem like the natural next step....
If you feel awkward trying any or all of the following, then you might not have the vibe you need to have a menaga a trois with your girlfriend.
- Talking dirty
- Being dominant in bed
- Being exciting and unpredictable
- Already very skilled at making her orgasm, and satisfying her needs in bed.
All of the above are signs of someone who is "sexually confident". This is the number one key to having a menage a trois. If you are not sexually confident, then you should probably postpone the menage a trois until you are more confident in bed. With all of the books and resources, any guy can become a seks master in a few months. When you can give her the strongest orgasms she's ever experienced, then a menage a trois is straightforward.
If you can't satisfy her, then you haven't earned the right to ask her for a menage a trois, and she won't be so excited to give you one.
1. Don't ask for a menage a trois, confidently tell her it's going to happen. Most guys make this huge deal about the menage a trois... this instantly turns women off. Don't be so fixed on it. You will find that after you set up the correct vibe in the relationship, getting to a menage a trois depends on how strong of a leader you are. If you've lead your girlfriend through many great sexual experiences, and you deserve it, then she'll more than likely be willing to let you have a menage a trois.
2. First thing you have to do is find a secondary girl. Most guys try to get two girls who are friends to both sleep with him at the same time. That's not going to work, your girlfriend must be on your side and fully willing. Two against one is much easier than one against two!
3. First spark attraction with the secondary girl, then your girlfriend has to do the same...The secondary girl sees the two of you as one person. So your girlfriend has to do her part to attract the girl as well.
4. Your girlfriend is the "main" girl, and is to be treated as such. This means that everything you do to the secondary girl must be done to your girlfriend first. This not only makes your girl feel included in the experience, it lets the secondary girl know that your girlfriend is willing to you advance on her. So if you want to kiss the second girl, kiss your girlfriend first. If you want to undress the second girl, undress yourself first (because you are the leader), then your girlfriend second, and her third.
5. If you are not capable of taking the lead in the situation, it will be an instant no go. If you are not willing to do something, then neither will the other girls.
6. Always assure your girlfriend and let her feel in control of the situation. If she doesn't like what you or the other girl is doing, let her know that she can say "no" at any time. This is very important otherwise she will feel like she is being cheated on.
7. Leading up to the menage a trois, YOU will be expected to risk rejection, not the women. When you advance on the secondary girl, if she doesn't respond, just stay calm, pull back, and flirt with your girlfriend some more. For example, if she doesn't want to kiss you, pull back and confidently make out with your girlfriend for a while. This will turn your secondary girl on immensely, then try again. Once you kiss her, make the two girls kiss.
8. Once kissing is done, take of your shirt, and your girlfriend's bra. If the secondary wont take hers off... have a three way makeout for a while, and make her feel your girl's breasts... and try again...
9. Be the first one to take of your pants, and tell your girlfriend to take off her pants...
10. Once sexual foreplay occurs, things switch... now you must be the LAST one to receive...First you pleasure them, then let them pleasure each other, then you let them pleasure you...
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